I'm listing all the major holidays like New Year's, Christmas, Thanksgiving, etc., and because I'm from Louisiana, Mardi Gras is also major here too in my welcome packet. My birthday is the very last day of each year, so I celebrate both it and New Year's together. Two special days for me, are my kids' birthdays, I've always let them miss that day of school (if not on weekend) and just me and the birthday child go and celebrate together. IF their birthday was on the weekend, they were able to invite their friends along too. Since they are both teenagers, they don't like to "hang" with mom too much. But, it's really good to re-connect with them and re-form that bond again on their special day.